Broken hearts suck.

[John]

Trust me, I really do feel "your" (all of you folks') pain.

They say: "What does not kill us makes us stronger."
I say: "If you hate it/hate will come to own you."

Trust me, forgive.
Forgive yourself as you forgive others. 

[ny2nh]

And she's been looking happier the past couple of times I've seen her, too!

[John]

I was just shedding a few silent tears for all (of us) who have lost loved ones.
Don't be afraid to shed a tear.
Don't be afraid to breath naturally.
Let yourself be natural.  GET REAL!
You have the RIGHT to relax.  

[Beth221]

shed silent tears?

what is this you speak of?

is it like when i am silently mad at my man?  (and he has to play that great guessing game "what is she thinking?")

[porcupine kate]

This sucks.  I still miss him.  I don't want him back but I do miss him.
Why do I miss a guy who dumped me in the worst way possible?

[Beth221]

my guess is because you still love him, he was your best friend, partner, and you didnt see this coming.  that is the sucky part.

[Beth221]

well, at least you are "clueless" 


Dear Abby,
My husband is a liar and a cheat. He has cheated on me from the
beginning; and, when I confront him, he denies everything. What's
worse, everyone knows
that he cheats on me. It is so humiliating! Also, since he lost his
job six years ago, he hasn't even looked for a new one. All he does
all day is smoke cigars, cruise around and shoot the bull with his
buddies, while I have to work to pay the bills. And since our daughter
went away to college, he doesn't even pretend to like me and hints
that I may be a lesbian.

What should I do?

Signed, Clueless



Dear Clueless:

Grow up and dump this bum! Good grief, woman; you don't need him
anymore. You're a U.S. Senator from New York and a candidate for
President of the United States. Act like it.

[dalebert]

Grow up and dump this bum! Good grief, woman; you don't need him
anymore. You're a U.S. Senator from New York and a candidate for
President of the United States. Act like it.

LOL!

[Beth221]

Grow up and dump this bum! Good grief, woman; you don't need him
anymore. You're a U.S. Senator from New York and a candidate for
President of the United States. Act like it.

LOL!

wasnt that good?  i dont know if it was actually in a real dear abby column, as someone sent it to me.  Kate, arnt you glad you are not in public eye? 

[Cyro]

Does anyone have any idea of how to heal a broken heart?

Sex. Yes, rebound fucks are good for you.

[Beth221]

Does anyone have any idea of how to heal a broken heart?

Sex. Yes, rebound fucks are good for you.

worlds worse advice to a woman. 

I bet that is how guys get over things..  what a shame. 

[Cyro]

Does anyone have any idea of how to heal a broken heart?

Sex. Yes, rebound fucks are good for you.

worlds worse advice to a woman. 

I bet that is how guys get over things..  what a shame. 

I was speaking from a chemical stand point, endorphins and so on. The best way to get over someone is to be happy without them.

[Beth221]

or a dirty horn dog point of view.

maybe it was how you said it that just disgusted me.

[Cyro]

My apologies, I assure you,  I'm spoken for. I'm quite harmless.

[ny2nh]

Does anyone have any idea of how to heal a broken heart?

Sex. Yes, rebound fucks are good for you.

worlds worse advice to a woman. 

I bet that is how guys get over things..  what a shame. 

I think some guys think that is the solution.....but you really don't want them anyways.